Don't talk or think like a victim

Those who talk like victims often wonder why they can't
catch a break, why they are stuck and can't get rolling
again. It's because they are calling in defeat. They are
calling in mediocrity.
... Our words can bless our future or they can curse it.
- Joel Osteen

You can create anythbing in your life that you desire. But be sure that you truly desire what you are creating and calling into existence.

It is so easy to focus all you thoughts on how bad things are now that you are alone or how much you miss the person who contributed so to your relationship being terrible, etc. Don't be a victim. Don't think like a victim. Don't talk like a victim.

If you truly believe that you are meant to be with this other person, it is perfectly fine and healthy to speak and believe that into existance. I've thought to do it with Galen from time to time.